Friday, July 23, 2010

childhood: couch-beds, dimmed lights, plinko, and lawn-service flags


I am, by nature, a very nostalgic person and having recently been feeling especially nostalgic about days gone by, this question is very fitting:


As kids, what were 4 of your favorite things to do/play?


In addition to endless hours of playing with dolls and barbies:


1. sleepovers on friday nights in the family room: I don't really know when these started, but I'm glad they did. My memory tells me that we had a sleepover on, what seems like, every-single Friday night. They usually consisted of me, my neighbor (and best friend at the time), my sister (probably if my friend and I were feeling nice enough to include her?) and my mom. It was something to look forward to every week and I always loved that it was "just us girls." My mom would push the couches together in our family room to make one big bed. We'd get out the sleeping bags (old ones that were my parents and smelled like our basement) and grab our pillows and make a huge, comfy couch-bed. My mom would make us nachos (like a big batch on a cookie sheet) and popcorn and we watched TGIF (remember when Full House was on TGIF?). After TGIF we'd watch a movie (usually Troop Beverly Hills or Overboard -- they were on the same VHS tape, one right after the other). These sleepovers were then obviously paired with sleeping in late on Saturday morning and maybe a homemade breakfast, courtesy of Mom. I don't even know how accurate my memories of these nights are, but I sure do remember them fondly.


2. grandpa and grandma's house: My dad's parents always lived just five minutes down the road from us so we were blessed to see them often. I have so many great memories of spending time with them, but some that stick out the most are from when they would babysit Heather and I for the night while my parents were gone. We would spend the night at their condo (which I always loved because it was clean -- yeah I was a neat freak -- and because it was our home away from home) and basically spent our time entertaining Grandma and Grandpa with our silly little shows or games. One of our favorite make-believe games involved each of us picking out one of Grandma's t-shirts (which we wore as dresses), dimming the lights in their living room, and then having Grandpa put on some classical music. Heather and I danced around the spacious room with couch pillows (the pillows were our "husbands") and pretended we were out at some fancy dinner dance with our significant others. Haha. This memory makes me laugh and smile. We looked forward to doing it every time we spent the night and thankfully, Grandma and Grandpa played along.


3. price is right on summer mornings: This memory is from when I was a little older, but I still remember waking up late on summer mornings and heading straight for the couch to watch "Price is Right". It was a great way to start the lazy, summer days. I always loved the games where they tried to win cars (the one where they rolled the over-sized dice was the best). And of course, one of my favorites, Plinko.


4. capture the flag with stacy and stephanie: During middle school some new neighbors started building a house right across the corner from ours. Heather and I were more than happy to find out that the new neighbors were a family of four with two girls about our age. It goes without saying that we spent tons of time with them (after school every day, every weekend, all summer, etc.). Again, I have tons of memories of activities we did with Stacy and Stephanie, but one of them was Capture the Flag. I forget the details now, but we made up some version that worked for just the four of us to play. The flags were always those little lawn flags that lawn-service places put up when they fertilize. We loved running through the woods around the house and coming up with clever ways to capture the flag.


As I write this blog, I am flooded with hundreds of fond memories from my childhood. I was blessed. I was surrounded with love and freedom and care-free summers and yummy food and fun vacations. I have nothing but happy memories from all my younger years.


Sunday, July 18, 2010

blog mondays: looking forward


What are four things/events on your calendar that you are anticipating? These could be things you are excited for, nervous about, dreading, or simply waiting for.
Being someone who is constantly checking my google calendar on my iPhone or scrolling through my Outlook calendar at work, the answers to this week's question came quite naturally. I think the reason I look obsessively at my calendars is because I like to think about the days, weeks and months to come and be able to picture what each will bring. I like to be prepared for the not so great events and I like to count down the days until the next exciting plan.

1. Conference at Work: The first thing that comes to mind is the upcoming conference at U of M that my department is playing a large role in. Since our department is heavily involved in providing service for this conference, I have been assigned as our "point person." In one way, this has been a blessing because it's kept me busy at work and has given me a great sense of ownership and accomplishment in my job. However, the down side to this responsibility is that it's a giant project/event that is just looming over my head. I don't want to wish the next few weeks away, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't looking forward to August 6th when it's all said and done.

2. JK Vacay: That's what Justin and I are fondly calling my week vacation in the middle of August when we will travel to Oliphant together for an entire week!!! My favorite place with my favorite person. My cottage has so many sweet, sweet memories for me and I love that I now get to share it with Justin. I also love that I have accrued enough vacation days to comfortably take a week off of work. It's a week that the two of us have been looking forward to for a long time. Although we've toyed with different ideas of where to spend the week together, we've landed on the idea of spending it in Oliphant where we can explore the Bruce Peninsula of Canada, enjoy lazy days at the beach, spend time with my Mom, sleep in, and sit around bonfires.

3. Meredith and Leland's Wedding: I'm sure this isn't really possible, but I think I'm as excited for this wedding as the bride. I have absolutely loved planning this wedding with my sister-in-law. We've spent countless time via email, texting and g-chatting discussing all the little details and I cannot wait to see them all come together. I'm also standing up as one of her bridesmaids and I feel so honored and blessed to have become such close friends with Meredith that I am able to support them on their big day. It will be a memorable celebration and although it will mean the summer is nearing its end, I'm most definitely counting down the days until this event.

4. Eminem and Jay-Z: On September 2, I will be joining a large crew of friends for this epic concert at Comerica Park in downtown Detroit. Being two of my favorite musical artists, I couldn't be more excited to attend this concert. I think the combo of Comerica Park, best friends, a night leading into a long, Labor Day weekend, and singing along to some of my favorite songs during a live performance will create nothing more than an epic evening.

blog mondays: songs on repeat


What are the four songs you currently play on repeat?

1. California Gurls: I can't help myself. It's a radio hit which puts it instantly on my favorite playlist. This song is everything I want in a summer beat: catchy, dancy, and perfect for singing at the top of your lungs with the car windows down. Katy Perry sings "sun-kissed skin so hot, I melt your popsicle...."

2. When I Look at You: I like this song for a few reasons. It's one of the theme songs in a recent Nicholas Sparks movie (check out my previous entry with a review of The Last Song) and those movies always have a certain way of tugging at my heart. It's one of those ballads with a chorus that features the artist (Miley Cyrus in this case) singing so passionately that you can feel it. Another reason I like it is because although the lyrics are probably meant to be about a guy, I've found that many of the lines in the song remind me of God -- I often sing the lyrics as if I'm talking with God. The following verses could be straight out of a praise song I've song at church:

"When my world is falling apart
When there's no light to break up the dark
That's when I, I
I Look at you

When the waves
Are flooding the shore and I can't
Find my way home anymore
That's when I, I
I Look at you

When I look at you, I see forgiveness
I see the truth
You love me for who I am
Like the stars hold the moon
Right there where they belong
And I know I'm not alone"

3. Break Your Heart: The beat of this song has me fist pumping at stoplights while I'm driving in my car. Another good song to sing while driving with the windows down. Also perfect for the dance floor on a summer night out on the town. Plus, it features one of my favorite rappers, Ludacris.

4. Rude Boy: Another classic radio hit, by Rihanna. Another song I get excited about every time it comes on over the radio station (which is quite often since they play it all the time). I think I like this one because even Justin gets into this song when we hear it. The lyrics might not be completely appropriate, but if I'm honest, that may be part of the reason I find myself drawn to this song.